First Comes Self-Love, Then Comes Marriage

Gila Daman was twenty-one when her father passed away. Instead of letting herself grieve, she fell into a series of unhealthy, superficial relationships that beat down her already low self-esteem.
After years of struggles in life and love, Gila finally learned how to find happiness: by getting to know and love herself. Instead of focusing on physical intimacy, she started confronting her grief and searching for a relationship with herself-one built on honesty and emotional maturity.
First Comes Self-Love, Then Comes Marriage is a series of funny, frank, and moving essays in which Gila describes her struggle to achieve a positive self-image. Gila's journey is a roadmap for all who feel lost in a series of disappointing relationships, and her battle with low self-esteem is one that all women can relate to.
Whether you're just entering the dating world or have been on the front lines for years, you'll find comfort and wisdom in Gila's words. By learning from Gila's mistakes, you'll give yourself a better shot at finding fulfillment from within.