Bøker av Chris Statham

"The greater the difficulty, the more glory in surmounting it. Skilful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempests." Epictetus Embark on a profound journey through the intricate labyrinth of a man's life, where complexity and challenges converge into a bewildering tapestry of emotions. In a world seemingly crumbling around him, he grapples with the recent loss of his father, the initiation of a divorce after a 14-year marriage, a slowing career trajectory, and the relentless ascent of debt, all creating a bleak landscape where great uncertainty looms ominously. This poignant and unflinchingly honest collection of poems, grouped into themes, encapsulates the male experience in a society influenced by distorted ideals propagated by celebrity culture and social media. The poet contends that these unrealistic standards contribute to the male mental health crisis, challenging the limited stereotypes that confine men to emotional stoicism and an exclusive pursuit of physical connection. Within these verses, you'll witness the raw vulnerability of a man striving to emerge from the depths of despair, embracing his true self and ultimately finding resilience in the face of the male mental health crisis. His story will shatter taboos, encourage you to confront your own demons and extend a compassionate ear to those in need. To forge a brighter future, one marked by authentic friendships and healing through self-discovery.

"Divorce isn't such a tragedy. A tragedy's staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce." Jennifer Weiner Amidst the tumult of divorce, a haven unexpectedly emerges through the tapestry of poignant poems that weave through the threads of unraveling knots. Initiated in the initial optimism of a fourteen-year marriage, the journey navigates challenges of relocation, cultural adaptation, parenting, and home-building. However, the latter seven years unveil a bleaker narrative, prompting a crucial reassessment. These verses delve into profound contemplation on the essence of love, from the exuberance of beginnings to the heartbreak of divorce, particularly when children are involved. As the decision to part ways is made, societal expectations are challenged, advocating for a nuanced understanding of separation without assigning blame. The poems encapsulate a fifteen-year odyssey, from the intoxicating allure of another's being to a profound respect for the essence of love-a commitment to an ideal rather than an inflexible reality. In the process of divorce, the author discovers solace in his poems while embarking on a journey to rediscover inner light and remain open to future relationships. This collection dismantles the fairy tale notion of happily ever after, offering a raw and honest exploration of the complexities woven into the fabric of love and marriage.

"Don't be afraid. Don't be ashamed. Don't ever apologize for your sexuality. Just be you." - Sonya Deville Embark on a daring exploration of human sexuality through a thought-provoking collection of poems that unflinchingly navigates the intricate tapestry of intimate experiences. These verses provide candid insights into the complex realm of our sexual lives. The poems affirm the enduring essence of our humanity lies in the act of sex, celebrated regardless of differences in race, religion, sexual orientation or whether it is for love, friendship or money. Moving beyond physical pleasure, the poems underscore the role of sex in overall well-being, from stress reduction to the release of oxytocin-the "love drug." They propose that sharing past sexual experiences with new partners can be both liberating and arousing. When delving into the realm of pornography, the poems explore the interplay between digital fantasies and real-life insecurities in an era dominated by image-centric social media. At its core, the collection fearlessly explores diverse sexual experiences, from hook-up apps to friends with benefits via sex workers, all the time acknowledging the blurred lines between passion and restraint. Bold and unapologetic, these verses invite reflection on the true essence of humanity-our desires, experiences and the embrace of the intricate facets of our sexual selves.

"Modest about our national pride - and inordinately proud of our national modesty." Ian Hislop Step into the vibrant tapestry of modern Britain with this collection of thought-provoking poems. Meet a member of the "Lager, lager, lager" generation, his conversations around the iconic Blur vs. Oasis debate. Raised with the belief, that, hard work leads to a fulfilling career and your home was your castle, these dreams were crushed by the 2008 financial crash. Now in his mid-40s, the poet questions, what's the essence of Britannia and, where does the Empire, The Royal Family and The Commonwealth fit into the modern world? The poems tackle questions that resonate with many Brits today: What defines our national identity? Is work-life balance attainable? Do we truly embrace differences, be they religious, ethnicity or sexual? And, perhaps most intriguingly, how does technology shape our present and what role will it play in our future? This collection delves into the heart of a rebellious island nation that values independence and creativity, but which has a widening socio-economic divide and democratic deficit. The UK is a country which venerates its past, is navigating a turbulent present and faces an uncertain future.